When an Introvert Falls in Love - Part Two 💕💕

 

 I don't think no other post than When an Introvert Falls in Love 💕 got so much traffic/hits in so less time.There are friends who still ask for the second part of  The Missed Train Part - 1  and here I post a part two of a blog which I put up couple of weeks ago.

Well not really a part two I had these things noted already  just didn't wanted to make the previous post long and most of the things are cliché . I mean Love itself is a cliché , but clichés exists for a reason.😁

Introverts are silent personalities with a huge heart and a lot going on in their head and very few ways of expressing it. They are very simple yet, understanding them takes time as they do not easily express what they feel.

They don't care about looks. No matter how you look or what your past is, they simply don't care. All they care is the present you and the future with you! When they fall in love with someone, no body’s opinion can change any of their feelings towards you.Yes, overthinking and over imagining gets them hurt too.

As much as you think you don’t affect them that much, you hold all the power in the world to hurt them.If something good happens with them, they want you to be the first one to know.

They drop a lot of disguised hints, but most of this goes un-noticed because they are so introverted that many people think that their dropping hints comes under normal behavior but for them  it is way beyond what they have ever done,like they’ll go against their nature of not texting/replying and will try to initiate conversations. They’ll make it a point to ask about your well-being even if texting is their least favorite.  

They are the ones who won't be able to express much by words but it is their action and behavior that works and deep inside they feel a lot, a lot more than imagined by the other person. They want to connect with someone with whom they can talk about life, humans, universe and everything around them. They really really love deep conversations. They can just sit with you for hours together, without doing anything, listening to your talk, and they cherish these moments too.They imagine you not just a lover but also a best friend with whom they will finally be able to share everything which they never said anyone else before.

They always tell themselves, “I would have easily approached , if she wouldn't be with her group”. Sometimes they hate themselves for not being a humorous person or talented enough to impress that one special person.

They start keeping count of every single meet even if it's only for a flick of second.  They listen. Everything you say. The same story n no of times. Patiently. And remember every word you say.They observe. Everything you do. From your ear rings to the dress you wore last day, everything.Since they observe so much expect an introvert to fall in love with all your small details much faster than an extrovert.

They will stand with you, in all your stupidities and dramas, in all your ups and downs, because they know what it means to stand alone in a crowd, and would never let you be in that position.

They may be the strongest personalities you will encounter. you don't know how much they are enduring and fighting silently until they trust you enough to open up, which actually can take months together.  

Dear Friend - Not Everyone's cup of Tea

 

Classmates, Notebook, Friends, Mumbai Police, NPCB etc. Malayalam cinema has seen different types of friendship movies and Dear Friend is just another experience.

 

 

The film is directed by actor Vineeth Kumar and scripted by Sharafu, Suhas and Thanmatra actor Arjun Lal(what a comeback, hope he stays) who also plays an important role in the movie.Shaiju Khalid's impossible frames which didnt seem to be a Malayalam movie, and Justin Varghese's background music that went with the story remained excellent.

The film introduces us to a group of 6 friends living in Bangalore who are very close to each other and spend most of their evenings together. The guys of the group work out their ways to find a proper investment for their start-up idea. One fine day, a member of the gang goes missing which leaves the remaining 5 friends in confusion and tension.  

It has an interesting storyline about friendship presented with a mystery. The first half gives a feel good experience, where the second half will take you through a personal emotion which most of us have experienced.

Tovino Thomas showcases an impressive performance playing Vinod who could be part of one's life as a friend who touches their souls and become an unforgettable human.The character Vinod will definitely be in the top 5 roles of his career.

 

Everyone did their job pretty well. Basil Joseph was a comic relief, Darshana Rajendran was impressive(as usual), Arjun Radhakrishnan's performance as Shyam seemed very convincing.

 I must say Cinema rarely portrays the grey side of friendship and Dear Friend definitely succeeded in doing that. Its slow (and thats the beauty of it), its not a nail biting even though the team tried a few a thriller effects here and there.

Friendships might fade away as we grow older with time and we'll be okay without them. There is no cheating or intentional cut off because we all get busy living and we change. But here in the film, Vinod ain't a person like that. He is a mysterious conman who just wants a temporary shelter for the time being. But from his POV, he says that he hasnt hurt anyone or cheated anyone for money. Instead he was there with them when they needed them the most, gluing them together, touching their souls and spreading happiness.The climax that didn't take us anywhere will be remembered and regretted.And that is what excited me as it broke all stereotypes.A special thanks for ending the movie without making it a cliche, giving the audience a space to think.You cannot show reality more realistically. Because reality is neither good nor bad.. its neither black nor white..Thats Life!!!

If you enjoy movies that leave you stuck for a while after the end credits roll, movies that make you read between the lines, solve some puzzles on your own and don't spoon feed every single thing to you. Movies that do not give you the ending that you expect and if you are ready to take that then do miss this one.

 

Dear Friend is an interesting take on friendship which unfortunately might not find a lot of takers since it's a rather unorthodox film. But its team deserves kudos for creating a movie that feels very real and is not designed to feed its audience with feel-good stuff!!!

 

 

Also Read:

Malayalam Movies I want the World to Watch! 

 

 

Ishq - Not a Love Story

All characters and events depicted in the story are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or persons is purely coincidental. :P

Vinod had fallen in love with Nithya, which would probably be as close to true love as he knew it, for he fell in love with her for all the good reasons. She was like an angel. Full of grace, and charm, and watery eyes and Vinod, on the other hand, was shy and was afraid to confess his love to her.
 
They knew each other for about 2 years and he finally thought that this was the time he should convey his feelings towards her. So he messaged her one day and asked her to meet in person.

She agreed and told him to reach a coffee shop near her house. He kept rehearsing the lines he wanted to say in front of a mirror. 
He dressed up for the meet and took a bus to reach the cafe as his house was far away from where Nithya stayed.

They met, they spoke for some while and then he proposed her, the most exciting thing about this was even Nithya had the same feelings. She was also waiting for such a day to let Vinod how much she loved him.They walked through the streets, and talked, and said goodbye before it got dark.

He still was so nervous, that he couldn't breathe properly, with the same excitement he took a bus and came back home.

Even after reaching home, he couldn't speak, his heart was pounding fast, he couldn't breathe.

Later he understood its symptoms of the corona, he is under observation now.

We had told him to stay home and don't go outside and meet other people, we last heard that even Nithya is under observation.

So please stay home don't go outside.
Take Care Everyone.



-Inspired from Memes💟💟

Namma Bengaluru!

 Been in Bangalore for more than a year. During my stay, here are some Bengalurean things that I experienced:



Namma Bengaluru has everything to offer from jobs to traffic thuds, from beautiful weather to home coming rain, from college going chaps to temple loving folks, from shopping spots to food lovers hub.  And most importantly... beautiful memories to tell your grandchildren for whatever stuff you did in Bangalore😉

Bangalore, where Paying Guest is the first business and IT stands second.

 

Equal numbers of IT professionals and stray dogs.

There is this famous saying here in Bangalore that ‘If you toss a stone in the air, it will either hit a dog or an IT employee.’
Out of every 100 IT engineers in Bangalore, 90 are utterly exasperated with their current jobs and rest have a Girlfriend / Boyfriend :p
The city where more people know Language C & Java than Kannada / Hindi/ English.

An airport which is almost in another city.
Very good connectivity from all over the country and world but , the Kempegowda International Airport , never feels like it is in the same city you live , it feels like going to Chennai for catching the flight .You have to leave at 2 or even before in the afternoon for the flight at 6  The airport is way too far 

 If you need to develop patience, come right here- at Bangalore. The place where you’ll start feeling couple of hours to be nothing more than few minutes and its going to make you habituated into doing nothing but sitting idle at a seat for hours

Traffic : 

K.R Puram,SilkBoard, Marathalli, Whitefield area, ufff…It will take more than half an hour to cover 2kms or so. 
The traffic is never ending… you can start from morning and could reach in evening (for just few Kms) to your destination if traffic shows you its true colors.
If you want to punish someone make them cross silkboard signal at peak hours. Nothing can match that.
During the morning and evening commute in KR Puram, you could see that a KTM Duke 390, Harley Davidson and a Hero Passion pro are all going at the same speed ( 4 km /hr ) and discipline ( There is no space left for any adventures ).

   
BMTC:

Super crowded buses: There's no escaping the buses that are crowded. If you are commuting in the morning, you're obliged to travel in those dumped buses.

Buses stopping at bus stops to pick up passengers and stopping in between bus stops for the conductor to finish issuing tickets.Bus drivers reads news papers at signals or in slow moving traffic. Once i was traveling from Whitefield to Majestic on a  Friday evening  and traffic was so much that Driver got down to have tea at near by stall on road.

Two Bus Trunks driven by a single Engine. Believe me it still goes past like a tracer bullet.

The lovely weather 
But it gets hot during summers , really hot . But at the same time , you don’t when it starts to rain.When someone says, 'It's raining in Bangalore,' be sure to ask them which area, which main and which cross road.

The rains are a disaster for the roads. They get clogged and end up forming potholes. 

 

Eateries are many
It is the melting point of North and South, you will find Punjabi restaurant (maintaining north taste) to typical south indian canteen with filter coffee! And the opposite as well means South Indian style of north Indian food (kachories, samosaas with coconut :P) and the variety of food is awesome. 

 This is most common breakfast people in Bengaluru have or prefer to have. They can eat it all the time morning/afternoon/evening everyday.

There are more options available but I dont know why people prefer these over anything else , maybe it's because everyone's always in a rush and want to eat something that's ready to serve.

 

Malls. If you don’t have plans for weekend then don’t worry! Just roam around any of the beautiful malls for free. Your weekend will be well spent!

Most Bengaluru thing is, its often called as Namma-Bengaluru(Our Bengaluru). One of such example is this Video by Rinosh George who is a Malayali guy. Please watch it.